I'm 19 years old and my mum has depression. I'm supposed to be studying for my first year uni exams but I'm finding it increasingly difficult to spend time at home in any capacity because she makes me feel guilty for not talking to her all the time. I guess I could move out but that would seem even more of a slap in the face for her, and in any case, I want to be there for her. But how can I be there for her while also have time to myself? There's just the two of us at home now. Any suggestions?
You need to talk to her. Let her know how much you love her, but that you also need time to study and have some "you-time." Perhaps you could suggest a dedicated evening or two per week where you would 'hang out' with her.
Hang in there - it's not easy but mum's are generally very understanding and maybe she just doesn't realise that you are felling so bad.